I need support since no one in my real life would be happy for me! 400k at 33.

I [33F] just reached my $400k milestone in investments. I’ve lived very modest for most of my 20’s (possessions and rent lifestyle) and 10% was from inheritance. In my early 30’s I got out of a long-term relationship. Ever since my relationship ended, I’ve had to rediscover myself. I’ve been going through depression and feeling lost, and navigating dating at my age. I make a modest salary for my age ($60k) I had about 60% of my investments in cash at one point and almost bought myself a home, bu