Dealing with unequal financial situations within family and friends

For me, the r/finance bubble only exists on Reddit and in real life my social contacts have very different financial positions. I assume that everyone knows this to a greater or lesser extent. Does it cause tension in your respective constellations if one person receives a large inheritance or early donations and another does not? Would you intervene “without being asked” if someone else spoke positively about an expensive/bad financial product?