Persuasion to get married

Hi everyone, after saying so much about Vietnamese weddings here, I need your encouragement for a moment. I'm getting married in August for €30,000 (fingers crossed, I'll probably add a dew on top of that in the end). Especially because of the feedback from my parents and the thought "In the end it's only one day" I always get a mediocre panic that I'm throwing away far too much money. I know that this is far from the limit. I also know that it is for